Thursday, September 4, 2008

embrace imperfection


when you look at this face you see so many imperfections....


my nose looks a bit skewed, my skin doesn't look that nice because of the lack of sleep, stress brought unto my own self LOL and well maybe toxins brought about my Cebu's atmosphere plus perhaps my hormonal imbalances! My hair looks horrible and unwashed. I can go on and on and on....


of course I can only conclude that like many facets of my life, my face is not that perfect...


About two months ago or less than that comments branding my blog as the advertising scheme of a petulant whore perpetuated my emails. Naturally it never made it to the main blog site hahaha!!! But it certainly hit me when I thought my life was going smooth-sailing...and it righteously hit the right parts too. I never knew someone still really would bother to stir my free flowing stream of a life out of the rush of the old life I had but then again there are many people who MAY NOT really like me at all LOL.


But as time settled all ripples I realized the most natural thing in this world for a girl like me was that we cannot please everyone. We may be perfect to one pair of eyes but we are a sore to another pair! Our thoughts and opinions may be pleasing to one set of people but it might be querulous and bothersome to another convention of people. The beauty about this world is we are here because we have agreed to agree AND disagree ....incorrect or not? hehehe


When it comes down to it, all I can really do is to caress my imperfections as well as my own positive attributes. Because no one else can do it for me (unless it's my husband hehe), because no one else can love me like I love myself and because no one else is capable of such atrocities or positivities except me hehehe!!!


4 comments:

Anonymous said...

At the end of the day we have to be comfortable with ourself, warts and all. We certainly can't please everyone - it's crazy to even try.
If there are people out there that don't like us for our likes and ways - tough!
Cheers Liisa

Anonymous said...

At last you have posted a new Blog entry. Thanks Liisa.... August was a long and boring month:(
I'm glad you are posting again:)
John

Anonymous said...

Well not being the distributor of these emails you received i can't really comment on why they sent them, But being a close friend of someone you did hurt i will say that people do move on but that does not mean that they forget...

And that there are always consequences for choices you make. My advice... You make peace with those you have hurt or sleep with one eye open for the rest of your days.

Dee

Anonymous said...

Hi Liisa
I’m sorry that some feel the need to hurt others; I hope that you have learned not to let them bother you too much. And see them for the inconsiderate, selfish, self-righteous jerks that they are.
The world will never be perfect and we all have to deal with it the way that it is.
Have Heart, Ben :)